The sitcoms you watched in your formative years
tended to mirror the family unit you wished you had.
For many American families that didn't represent the
nuclear family, sitcoms were aspirational. Families
stuck together no matter what – except for the characters who were written off shows like they never existed
– and always hugged it out at the end of the episode.
For Black millennials, there are sitcoms that tap into
our unfulfilled desires or, as I will call it, wish fulfillment for an idealized family unit, wealth and privilege,
and generally being regarded as “cool.”
There's the show we all love because it's a good show:
The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. […]
Philip Banks was the stern, lovable father we'd seen
countless variations of on TV before – but this one
was Black. And wealthy, not because of a job in entertainment or because his blue-collar business blew up
like George and Weezy's, but because he was a prominent, well-respected judge. The Jeffersons represented
the so-called American Dream that we're all constantly
striving for, but Fresh Prince existed in a world where
Black people were able to thrive as equally as their
white peers. Or so it would seem. […]
On Fresh Prince,
the theme song introduced Will Smith as
the audience's surrogate, an everyman who
found himself transported
to the kingdom
of Bel-Air. If only we
could all be plucked
from our circumstances and sent to live in a mansion
in Bel-Air, complete with a butler. After one fight in
his hometown of Philadelphia, Will was shipped off
to live with his rich family relatives (“I got in one little
fight and my mom got scared. And said, you're movin'
with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air”). […]
Fresh Prince holds up incredibly well on rewatch not
only because it's funny, but because it taps into the
desire most Americans have for a strong family. […]
When you watch the Banks family on TV, you wish
they were your parents, not just because they live in a
mansion, but because there's a sense of a mother and
a father with a strong moral compass. Things I didn't
have, things I didn't know I craved.